For the woman who’s done shrinking to make others comfortable - this is where you come home to your truth.
Where your presence draws respect, your voice carries power, and every relationship begins to reflect the woman you actually are.
Because you’re not asking for too much - you’re just done accepting too little.
You’ve mastered success everywhere - except where it matters most.
You’re not too much. You’ve just outgrown what no longer matches your power.
Those survival patterns?
They helped you once.
But now they’re costing you peace, intimacy, and respect.
It’s time to stop negotiating your worth and start choosing relationships that reflect it.
Speak your truth.
Raise your standards.
Watch everything shift.
You’ve done the work. So why do your relationships still feel so hard?
Because you’ve healed the past -
but you’re still attracting from it.
If you’re tired of over-giving, overthinking, and contorting yourself just to keep the peace…
it’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because you’ve outgrown who you had to be to survive.
It’s time to stop managing disconnection - and start reclaiming the woman you were never meant to hide.
My name is Darla Ridilla - and I help high-achieving women stop shrinking in relationships and start standing fully in their truth and power.
This isn’t about chasing love.
It’s about becoming the kind of woman whose presence attracts connection that honors who she is - without apology, explanation, or performance.
If any of this hits home…
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You crave real connection but keep finding yourself in surface-level dynamics.
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You’re tired of being breadcrumbed, ghosted, or dismissed.
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You’ve traded your peace just to avoid confrontation.
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You’ve stayed too long in relationships - romantic, professional, or family - that drained your energy and blurred your boundaries.
Then it’s time for something deeper.
Something truer.
Something aligned with your power.
Darla Ridilla
Relationship Coach
for High-Achieving Women
Here’s how we do the real work—together:
As a Certified Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach, I don’t hand out surface-level fixes.
I help you get to the root - so you can break the patterns that keep you stuck and create real, lasting change in every relationship.
Together, we will:
Break the trauma bonds that keep pulling you back into the same exhausting dynamics - so you can finally feel free to choose differently.
Retrain your nervous system to feel safe choosing what’s healthy, not just what’s familiar - so peace and passion can coexist.
Heal the deep-rooted patterns that taught you to over-function, over-give, or settle for less - so love starts to feel mutual, not managed.
Set radically clear boundaries - without guilt, fear, or over-explaining - so your “no” holds power and your “yes” carries truth.
Reclaim your power so love, connection, and respect stop feeling like a performance - and finally feel like home.
Magnetic Connections Experience
A 90-day private coaching journey for women ready to lead every relationship from truth and power.
You’ve done the work. You’ve broken patterns. But now it’s time to live the freedom you’ve been fighting for.
The Magnetic Connections Experience is for high-achieving women who are done overgiving, done performing, and done repeating the same draining patterns.
This is where you stop shrinking to fit and start leading every relationship - romantic, family, work, or friendship - with clarity, confidence, and emotional freedom.
Through the Magnetic Connections Pathway, you’ll learn to embody your worth, communicate with grounded truth, and create relationships that feel mutual, nourishing, and real.
This isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about coming home to the version of you that was never broken.
You’re not here to perform, please, or prove.
You’re here to lead, to connect, and to live from your truth - not your trauma.
Ready to stop repeating the same patterns?
The shift begins with you. And it starts now.
You Have the Power: The Road to Truth, Freedom and Real Connection
The podcast for high-achieving women who’ve been told they’re too much — and are done shrinking to be loved.
Hosted by Darla Ridilla, Certified Somatic Trauma-Informed Relationship Coach, this show helps you unravel the hidden patterns that keep powerful women stuck in cycles of self-abandonment — in love, family, work, and beyond.
This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about freeing you.
Each episode blends raw truth, nervous system-based tools, and bold conversations to help you stop performing for approval and start leading from deep self-trust and radical boundaries.
Because you’re not too much — you’re just done accepting too little.
It’s time to reclaim your voice, your energy, and your relationships. The road starts here.
Testimonial:
I came to Darla feeling so stuck in taking a huge
leap to begin my own business. She helped me
see where my fears were and how I could
navigate them in ways that served me and my
potential clients. She was very patient and was
able to tie all of my rambling thoughts together in
a way I hadn't been able to. She was also gentle
with my fears, in a way that was validating and
compassionate. It was just the shift I needed to
overcome this hurdle and I'm now feeling able to
make the progress I want.
Thank you, Darla!
Jayme