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What a Difference a Year Makes
As I navigate my healing journey, I sometimes forget just how far I've come. This journey began in earnest 11 years ago and it has felt...

High Value Woman
Jun 10, 20244 min read
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Commitment to Self
The past couple of weeks have been difficult on an emotional level. I decided to end the relationship I was in on Monday. We only dated...

High Value Woman
May 24, 20243 min read
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Self Realizations
I am taking a course to become a somatic trauma informed coach. I am now three months into this course and I can already see a dramatic...

High Value Woman
May 7, 20242 min read
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Power of Fear
I have been controlled by my fears for the past two days. It has reached a consuming level and I woke up this morning knowing that I need...

High Value Woman
May 2, 20244 min read
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Narcissistic Rage
The next topic for the support group I run is narcissistic rage. If you've ever been on the receiving end of this shocking behavior, you...

High Value Woman
Apr 30, 20243 min read
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New Beginnings
This has been a huge week for me. I officially started my business to coach women who have experienced narcissistic abuse. It has been a...

High Value Woman
Apr 26, 20242 min read
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Grey Area
I had an epiphany yesterday while thinking about something I said the day before... that marriage is a commitment but not a guarantee....

High Value Woman
Apr 22, 20244 min read
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No Rain Checks
I used to be that person in the relationship who thought she could fix the other person. I dated the potential and not the reality. I...

High Value Woman
Apr 21, 20242 min read
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Pruning the Tree
It's been six months since I gave my ex the boot and three months since I've declared this to be the year of finding my joy. In the past...

High Value Woman
Apr 11, 20244 min read
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Timeline to Healing
One of the assignments in the coaching course I'm taking is to make a timeline of my life, noting significant events when I felt safe and...

High Value Woman
Mar 23, 20244 min read
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Toxic Family Dynamics
I have a sister that I no longer speak to. After years of riding the roller coaster of drama and toxic behavior, I decided to get off the...

High Value Woman
Mar 22, 20244 min read
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Yin and Yang
I've been on a roller coaster of emotions lately and in a funk a lot of the last two weeks. I've been dealing with a sick geriatric dog...

High Value Woman
Mar 10, 20243 min read
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Trauma Response
This past week has been extremely stressful and I had a few meltdowns - all were related to a trauma response. As someone with C-PTSD, I...

High Value Woman
Feb 25, 20243 min read
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Is Your Relationship a Partnership or a Dictatorship?
I am enjoying my course that will give me a masters equivalent in the next year. It has been a challenge to balance my class with my job...

High Value Woman
Feb 18, 20244 min read
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Just Jump
In 2019, I went back to school. The original plan was to get a Masters Degree in seven years while working full-time to become an LCSW....

High Value Woman
Feb 5, 20242 min read
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Power of Laughter
Just under two weeks ago, I had an acupuncture treatment. After going 10 years without any energy work, I was overdue. My dog has been...

High Value Woman
Feb 3, 20243 min read
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Cleaning House
Sometimes when we have a spurt of personal growth, we find that we outgrow people in our lives. It doesn't mean we are better than them,...

High Value Woman
Jan 31, 20243 min read
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You Have No Power Over Me
It was a matter of time... after no contact with my ex for three months, I ran into him last night. Luckily I had time to mentally...

High Value Woman
Jan 21, 20244 min read
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Guidance
Since my last post, I have decided not to date the guy I just met. Not only did he continue to flirt or talk with other women the last...

High Value Woman
Jan 8, 20244 min read
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Loneliness
It's okay to feel lonely but it's harmful when we act lonely. What I mean by this is that we look to others to fill the void of...

High Value Woman
Jan 7, 20243 min read
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