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Setbacks are a Bitch
I've talked many times on podcasts about being kind to yourself during a setback but this week, I had to remind myself of my own advice....

High Value Woman
Nov 2, 20244 min read
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Self-Compassion Guide
Self compassion is so important while healing from narcissistic abuse. The past couple of weeks have been a whirlwind of emotions --...

High Value Woman
Oct 25, 20242 min read
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Managing Expectations
I'll admit it, I'm a recovering perfectionist and I expect more of myself than I do of others. I've always pushed myself hard and I have...

High Value Woman
Oct 18, 20242 min read
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Too Good to be True
As I navigate a new relationship, I find myself getting triggered frequently. It's still new but so far I feel safe and that this is...

High Value Woman
Oct 11, 20243 min read
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The Myth of Being Strong
It's such a burden at times to be a strong woman. Society assumes that because you are strong on the outside that you always feel that...

High Value Woman
Oct 3, 20243 min read
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Brain Spotting
My clock went off at 1:30 a.m. last night after just 45 minutes of sleep. I hadn't intended to make it a late night but that's how things...

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Sep 27, 20243 min read
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Ruminate or Regulate
One of the unfortunate side effects of C-PTSD is rumination and anxiety attacks. When someone has repeatedly experienced inconsistent...

High Value Woman
Sep 23, 20245 min read
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Waves of Change
As a follow up to last week's post about solitude, I found that I needed the uninterrupted time to think more than ever. When I Ieft for...

High Value Woman
Sep 14, 20245 min read
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The Importance of Solitude
The past couple of weeks I've experienced my share of stressors and through those tough times, I've spent a lot of time alone. As I...

High Value Woman
Sep 7, 20242 min read
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Frustration!
The past couple of days have been extremely frustrating. I have had some setbacks and challenging situations to figure out. As a new...

High Value Woman
Aug 30, 20243 min read
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Time is Precious
On Monday morning I dropped everything and canceled all of my appointments for a couple of days. While being self employed can be...

High Value Woman
Aug 25, 20243 min read
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Dating Woes
As a middle-aged woman, I find the dating world to be extremely frustrating. What has added to my frustration is the number of men who...

High Value Woman
Aug 14, 20244 min read
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The Unknown
I ventured into the unknown this week and launched my podcast, You Have the Power: The Road to Recovery from Trauma and Narcissistic...

High Value Woman
Aug 9, 20243 min read
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Prison of Silence
I have started making guest appearances on podcasts and am in the process of creating my own. As those recordings are released, they will...

High Value Woman
Aug 2, 20242 min read
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Honoring Our Needs
I woke up this morning feeling a little weary. I had plans to get up early and take a Zumba class and then get a few hours of studying...

High Value Woman
Jul 26, 20242 min read
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Surrender
I've had an important lesson in the power of surrender this week. So many things in our lives are out of our control. As a recovering...

High Value Woman
Jul 19, 20243 min read
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Twists and Turns of Life
I have come a long way in the past 11 years but setbacks are part of the process. I'll admit I've been in a funk for the past couple of...

High Value Woman
Jul 13, 20244 min read
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Reactive Abuse
Have you ever had someone push your boundaries or push you to the edge? When you reacted to that behavior, did the other person try to...

High Value Woman
Jul 7, 20242 min read
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PTSD Awareness
June is PTSD awareness month. It's a mental health issue that is often misunderstood. When most hear the term, they envision a Vietnam...

High Value Woman
Jun 28, 20244 min read
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Family Divorce
I recently attended an event which included a family member who I cut ties with. It was the first time I'd been around her in 11 years...

High Value Woman
Jun 24, 20244 min read
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