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You Have No Power Over Me
It was a matter of time... after no contact with my ex for three months, I ran into him last night. Luckily I had time to mentally...

High Value Woman
Jan 21, 20244 min read


Guidance
Since my last post, I have decided not to date the guy I just met. Not only did he continue to flirt or talk with other women the last...

High Value Woman
Jan 9, 20244 min read


Loneliness
It's okay to feel lonely but it's harmful when we act lonely. What I mean by this is that we look to others to fill the void of...

High Value Woman
Jan 7, 20243 min read


Robbed of Innocence
I started writing my book yesterday. The book starts with my childhood and I needed to take a break for a minute to calm the unexpected...

High Value Woman
Jan 1, 20244 min read


New Year, New Beginnings
It's New Year's Eve and 2024 is right around the corner. 2023 was a challenging year and I'm ready to put that behind me and embrace new...

High Value Woman
Dec 31, 20234 min read


Christmas in California - a Self Care Journey
I made it through Christmas! There is definitely a sense of relief that the Christmas holiday is over. I made the best of it by taking a...

High Value Woman
Dec 27, 20233 min read


Hollowness During the Holidays
I have spent holidays alone in the past and done pretty well, but this Christmas season, I am really struggling. After a lot of...

High Value Woman
Dec 9, 20235 min read


Getting in Touch with the Real You
I just started reading a book this week that is really speaking to me -- it's called Single on Purpose by John Kim. The timing is...

High Value Woman
Nov 29, 20234 min read


Invasion
I decided to go out of town by myself for the Thanksgiving holiday. I spent the weekend in the Colorado mountains enjoying a riverside...

High Value Woman
Nov 27, 20235 min read


Unpack Your Bags
As I continue to review my relationship over the past year and see things from a vastly different perspective, I am starting to see how...

High Value Woman
Nov 18, 20234 min read


To Block or Not To Block, That is the Question
I'm still in shock at the abruptness of the discard including the breakup and then the silent treatment that started three weeks ago. I...

High Value Woman
Nov 16, 20235 min read


Hot Potato
I did a long hike yesterday and being in nature soothed me for a while. I started to feel sad again this evening while watching a film...

High Value Woman
Nov 6, 20234 min read


Missing a Toxic Partner
The past week has been difficult because I miss my ex. I miss the things I liked about him and the good times that we did have - his...

High Value Woman
Nov 4, 20233 min read


Duped
There is something that I have concluded but I don’t want to admit. I think I attracted another narcissist into my life. This would be...

High Value Woman
Oct 29, 20234 min read


Heartbreak
Today would have been our one-year anniversary. I realized what day it was as I drove to meet a friend to listen to some music. The deep...

High Value Woman
Oct 29, 20232 min read


Deny Access
This week has been extremely difficult and draining. After dealing with the dissolution of my relationship and friendship with my ex, he...

High Value Woman
Oct 27, 20234 min read


Discard
And just like that, he discarded me. Since my last post, there's been a falling out with my ex. He probably did me a favor but it doesn't...

High Value Woman
Oct 24, 20234 min read


Setbacks and Realizations
Yesterday was day 2 of focusing on strength. Some may say that being strong is never giving in but I think strength is less linear than...

High Value Woman
Oct 22, 20235 min read


Strength During a Breakup
I didn't expect it to happen... again. He said it would be different this time... but it wasn't. I thought we were finally working on a...

High Value Woman
Oct 20, 20234 min read


Pull the Trigger
Today I got triggered. I went to a fundraiser at a local American Legion (AL) with the expectation of having a good time with current...

High Value Woman
Sep 23, 20234 min read
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